Issue: Saima in her early thirties came in with the complaint of feeling constantly fatigued. She woke up in the morning feeling totally exhausted, energy-less. Her entire day was consumed in thoughts she wasn’t even aware of. Saima wasn’t able to focus on her work. She was dating a guy, but they broke off as she constantly complained of being fatigued. She wasn’t able to give any time to this guy and so he thought she wasn’t serious in the relationship. Her professional front was also in pits as her performance was constantly dipping.
Issue: Karan has been married for more than a decade now. His wife Monica was a great human being but still she always had this feeling of jealousy when Karan would speak to any his male or female friends and even when they went out on vacation trips as a group. Both of them came to me to sort out their relationship. In every fight, Monica told Karan that if he had a problem then let us walk separate ways. Karan is deeply in love with Monica and does not want this to happen. They have a son together and Karan wants him to have a happy loving environment at home. Monica had been to a series of psychiatric treatments, but she relapses each time.
Issue: Rima is 29 and has come with the issue of having frequent accidents. She reported that the first one happened when she was a year old and had fallen down from the steps of her apartment. This time she had fractured her shoulder bone. Next accident took place at her home town while playing with other kids. This time she was seven years old and fell down from the first floor of the bungalow and broke two ribs and fractured some bones on the spinal cord. The next accident took place when she was 18 years old and this time fell down the escalator at the airport. She broke her jaw bone and stitches around the neck area. And after this accident she had frequent epileptic attacks.
Rahul in his late 40’s read about Family Constellations in a newspaper. This was his beginning of the journey to uncover patterns that were repeating in his financial area. He contacted me to understand the real reasons for these patterns. Rahul was electronics engineer and employed by one of the best in the industry. The real issue was his work being never acknowledged and he was back stabbed by his superiors. He shared during his initial interview that his father had the same issue his government job. His paternal grandfather was murdered by a co-worker at his job over issues of promotion. So, we could clearly see a pattern of making enemies at work.
Maya in her mid 30’s approached me with the issue of having unstable relationships especially in her love area. She described that was married twice and both the marriages failed miserably. She had a son from her second marriage whom she was raising alone. She had no financial and emotional support from the father of the child neither her own family. Her family background showed that she grew up without a father. She mentioned her father passed away in an accident when her mother was pregnant three months with Maya. The mother had to struggle to raise Maya and her older sister.